If you are a goal-oriented person who lives and dies by your To-Do-List, the thought of scrapping New Year’s resolutions for one word might seem as terrifying as crossing the Grand Canyon on a tightrope without a safety net or harness.
If not terrifying, then at least irresponsible. After all, don’t we need goals to measure our success? How will we know we have achieved without benchmarks? Having a single word guide our year might be exhilarating like an adrenaline pumping tightrope walk, but our pragmatic nature dismisses that as sheer lunacy.
Training and Focus
But consider Nik Wallenda, a very goal-oriented man who walked across the Little Grand Canyon Gorge in June, 2013. In 22 minutes, in high winds, he traversed 1,400 feet on a two inch cable 1,500 feet above ground without any safety apparatus.
Nik didn’t just wake up one morning and decide he was going to do this. He is an aerialist who has trained all his life for these types of walks, Grand Canyon being the riskiest. His habits allowed him to achieve. But what’s interesting, is that when it came time to perform, he ditched the encumbering harness and only used a balance rod. All his prior training kicked in and he simply focused on the walk. Later, he said the view was breathtaking.
Core Habits As Navigators
As I ponder the one word concept I realized that it’s not the safety net of resolutions that allows achievement. In fact, sometimes resolutions can be a burdensome harness. The core habits I have developed over time, before the moment of performance, are what allow me to navigate life’s challenges. The qualities that lead me to make and accomplish resolutions — deliberative, strategic, maximizer — are part of me whether I live my year against a checklist or through the fluidity of one word. The word I chose is freedom. I can be strategic in how I apply that to my life this year. I can maximize opportunities to live in freedom. I can be deliberate about walking in freedom.
Choosing one word isn’t an abandonment of my personality traits or habits: it’s an enhancement.
Growth, Outcomes, Engagement
One word can actually accomplish more than a list. We check resolutions off as they are achieved and that’s that. But with one word to guide us, the opportunities for growth are multifold. It can lead to unexpected and even better outcomes, breathtaking views and new perspectives.
Type As tend to engage (maybe sometimes too much)! What makes the one word concept effective is that allows us to more fully engage in a way the static list of resolutions doesn’t. It forces us to apply our creativity and emotions, as well as our mental processes to our lives and decisions.
As you think about how you will structure this new year, ask yourself this:
Will you grow and achieve more in 2014 through resolutions or through the application of one word to multiple areas of your life?
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